lørdag 16. november 2013

Happy belated halloween + new thiiiings

As I promised you guys,
I would post my Halloween outfit as soon as I had the confidence for it,
so here we are! 

I am quite happy with my theme, going for everything pumpkin and orange ^^ hehe
I just wish I had gotten my dress sooner >.<


I hope you like it anyway!
 (sorry about the bad quality pictures)

Halloween, Pumpkin!
Dress: Romwe
Socks: Ebay
Shoes: Taobao
Bag: Nille
Hair–accessories: Glitter

Other than that,
I wanted to show you guys some things I have gotten in the mail recently!
I have been ordering quite a few things lately you see...

I got a really, really wonderful artbook, with the works of animator artist Umakoshi Yoshihiko! responsible for the designs of, amongst other things, Precure and Ojamajo Doremi ^^!
I love it so much ;V; <333

I also got "Laputa – Castle in the sky" DVD by Studio Ghibli ^^ Another movie to add to my Ghibli collection! This far I have 10 of them <3

My dresses from Romwe, as you know, finally came along! ^^

I am looking forward to finding a nice coord to put together for this dress!

I went shopping with my mom last weekend.
She gave me this lovely, cosy sweater, and I bought the new
"Kingdom Hearts HD 1.5 Remix" game for PS3 ^^
iiih, so excited!
(I haven´t tried the game yet, but I am looking forward to doing so! ^^)

And in the end, I just wanted to add that I got a lovely surprise in the mail yesterday!
My friend, Melva, sendt me a super cute Angelic Pretty postcard ; v; <3
I allready put it up on my wardrobe wall, with my other lolita postcards! ^^ 
hehe, I only have four of them, but I hope I´ll get more as time goes by ;v; 

I love the design so much! I wish I had chocolate tights ;V; they are so adorable! <333

Do you send letters to your friends? 

Thats it for now!
Thank you for reading, once again ^^
Happy belated halloween!

fredag 8. november 2013


No one likes reading "all text" posts. 
As an avid blog reader myself, I know that too much text looks a bit overpowering,
and you kinda loose interest before even starting to read what the blog entry is all about.

Well, since we´ve established that, both you (readers) and I can agree on that I won´t make this update long. I am too tired to do so anyway, so don´t worry...

If you WANT to read about my current life, please proceed,
However, if you are here only for pictures or some kind of fashion/style related input,
I can´t help you right now....This is sadly just a personal update, for reference...

As a reward, I can inform you that I will be writing a review soon,
and post some pictures of my Halloween dress that just arrived two days ago (typically)
When I´ve got the energy for it...

This past month has been a rollercoaster of ups and extreme downs, most of all extreme downs...
Ever since my little brake from school after autumn–brake, I have never really gotten "back in the game" sort of... Getting back to school again made me feel anxious and tired, and at some points I felt extremly paranoid and aggressive for no reason at all... Every little thing triggered my mood, and all I could do was hope no one would talk to me or tell me to do anything
because I was so tired I just felt like weeping...

Sometimes, I would acctually just start crying, simply from trying to
talk to someone about something totally normal! Like asking what page to read,
or making a notice of the fact that I was going to the toilet.
I felt actual psycotic at times, thinking of death and just staring blankely into the air, having to read things over and over again to at all grasp what I was doing... 

The week in the ED Phsyciatry place only made me worse... I litterary got sicker....
The whole thing made everything a lot worse than it was before. I really didn´t like the way they lead their routines around that place, and it felt like an agony to be there...
All they did was ... you know.... food....
(I am so bad ill right now I can´t even get myself to WRITE about this ...)
And other than that they just left me in my room, alone...
I only had two conversations with a phsyciatrist, the whole time... other than that everyone treated me like it was something I wanted... to be there, that is... and they treated me like everything was so natural and easy and like nothing was hard at all... I had to call my mom or text her all the time to get some positive feedback at all from being there... it was killing me... I felt like they were just observing like robots and without any kind of feelings around the situations... taking blood samples every single day, making me all dizzy and bruised, and pumping some kind of weird vitamins into my arms through plastic things connected to my veins...
and with my terrible fear of shots and everything >.< ugh

Anyway, getting home this week was kinda rough also...
I had a mental brakedown the first day back here, after getting home from school
(on wednesday, since I came back home on tuesday)
It resulted in my mom forcing me to stay home for the rest of this week,
and they called my school about everything, since it has been such a mess lately...

The meeting involved the vice–principal, the study–leader of my trade at the school,
and my teacher, and both my parents.

We talked about how much my disease is distroying my life at the moment,
and that its not correct of them to allow me into a normal school–life in my state, if this continues...

So they kinda put an out a couple of options for me, none of wich I am able to even think about right now... I am SHOCKED really... I just couldn´t stop crying:

They wanted me to get away from some classes, and only take half, and rather do everything over 
TWO YEARS O_____________O

... I am saying this right now, this is never gonna happen... NEVER!!!

The other option was to lower my workload with excepting less than absolutely perfect everything, but that is also out of the question and they know it, because I am such a perfectionist, and my disease makes me punish myself all the time to push it harder and harder and harder,
to do everything right and be perfect....

and it just gets a million times worse when I don´t.... if I don´t do that... my mind implodes

 So right now, I am just... I am burned out, to be honest... there is really nothing else to say about it.
I am anxious and tired all the time, my whole body feels like I´ve run a million miles and my head shifts from pshycotic thoughts to nothingness and emptyness, to focusing on work work work, and I... am simply having a breakdown... even as tired as I am, I still feel worthless, and like I need to work harder, and that nothing is good enough... I never dress up anymore because it makes me too cold and I am too self–concious about everything. I don´t really feel happyness, just emptyness, I never do anything because I am too tired, I simply exist, I don´t live, sitting around breathing... doing my forever ongoing routine every single day, with all the work, all the exercise and work–outs....

My life is a mess.
I am done now, I have no idea what to say....

Thanks for reading if you did
I am so sorry for dissapointing you and braking down your pictures of me as some kind of good person. I am just a destroyed person. And I am terribly afraid of everything right now... I have been keeping away from updating because of the pressure I´ve felt in relations to it, another area where I have to be perfect, have to look like people want me to look, have to look like I do...

I am just so tired, I wish I wasn´t even born... everything is falling apart, just slipping through my hands right now, I feel so small and scared...